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Being Right
All of us know people who are hell bent on being right about everything big and small to the extent of creating an ick-filled repulsion field around them.
These people are continually bitching and moaning and complaining. They’re always blaming and/or criticising someone or something, blaming God and the Angels, refusing to take any responsibility for the reality they create, and justify their behaviour as just stating their opinion. They covet their self-righteousness and victim hood and kvetching as if they were jewels in their crowns of glory (or is it thorns?). It’s very unpleasant to be around people like this, it’s a “yuck fest” as my friend and colleague, Maria, would say.
Yeah, it is.
Moreover, people who are addicted to complaining and being right continue to draw to themselves more experiences to complain and be right about. I have observed these folks “jones-ing” to complain about something and when they didn’t have anything to complain about, actually began complaining about life going way too smoothly—waiting with baited breath for the other shoe to drop…and then it does, of course, and they’re right once again, and alone.
There is an attractor pattern that draws these folks to us—perhaps as an exercise in acceptance and compassion, or forgiveness and patience, or an opportunity to dissolve a pattern of dysfunction and realign our energy system to magnetise more pleasant experiences, particularly if we find ourselves surrounded and systematically drained by nasty complainers and whiners.
What to do?
Simply observe such folks (like yourself, maybe?) with compassion, without judgment, without endeavouring to get away from them, or push them away, or fix them. If there are aspects you enjoy about these folks, focus on those aspects, they may or may not transform, just be open to the possibility.
Easier said than done… just do it, already. Clarity arrives soon enough.
Pushing these kinds of folks and experiences away from you only draws even more of these folks and experiences to you.
The Law of Attraction will make it so the Universe will keep these folks out of your reality. Your energy fields just won’t be compatible.
Look around you and take stock of your circle of friends and colleagues, people in your immediate sphere—they are energetic matches to you. Do they make you smile, bring you joy and laughter, is it easy to be with them, or do they bring you down with their constant cravings for attention by complaining and controlling everything and being right about whatever? Do they reek of resentment and self righteousness by making everyone and everything, including you and the dogs and cats and the furniture and the weather and the traffic and the neighbourhood smells and the cost of petrol and lines at the supermarket and the terrible restaurant with their stupid waiter and their over-priced bad chardonnay and the fashion statement of the girl-next-door and so on and so on and so on…. wrong?
Relax, proceed, live your life focused on beauty and your great fortune of Being. In any case, the only thing that’s ever right is the Universe, life itself. Let the Universe handle the details and say “YES”! to attracting and magnetising abundance and positive experiences, filled with loving, joyous and delightful people, and watch your magical life unfold. It works like a charm.
Abundant Blessings and Love to All,
Marja West
Copyright © 2010 Marja West/Absolute Balanced Mastery. All rights reserved.
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